In the Long Run

A few years ago, for the first, and maybe only, time, I ran a few miles with one of my brothers. At that time, I faced a possible move away from my current hometown, and I lamented to my brother about the disruption this would cause in my life. Although I expected him to reply sympathetically, I was not really surprised when he answered, “The change would be good for your family. It would challenge you and make you grow.”

I realize that change can be often straightforwardly positive and helpful. And I see how even seemingly disruptive change, such as I considered the potential move, can have shrouded advantages or eventual benefits. But still, most changes are uncomfortable, at least for a time. That is why the more things change, the more I wish some things would stay the same.

Have you ever wished you could freeze a singular moment, or even a longer period in your life, and suspend time? I know change is inevitable, but that does not deter me from wistfully trying to hang onto certain precious, but fleeting, chapters of my life. And later, when I reflect on those matchless moments, the memories become almost larger and more significant than the actual time, which only compounds the nostalgia and desire to return.

Reluctantly I acknowledge that those moments, if frozen, would never retain their exuberant life and would eventually stagnate and disappoint. Instinctively, as in the conversation with my brother, I know that change should be expected, is often necessary, and can be a prologue to new, precious but fleeting, life chapters. I know that change can make us stretch, reach, and grow stronger.

So, with a small sigh, I tuck my idyllic memories into my brain’s back pocket, and contemplate the changes that face me, my family, and my friends. Some of the changes are small, some are significant, some are welcome, and some are heart-wrenchingly difficult. All of them will provide some sort of challenge, but in the long run, there is hope for increased strength and positive growth.

Posted by Cyppy at 9:11 PM